taking what i have answered and put on both reddit and fetlife…im just copying and pasting it and putting it up on here
what clients have done to me …has been the VERY CAUSE OF PERMANENT BRAIN DAMAGE…THATS WHAT MEN FOR THE MOST PART HAVE DONE….AND I GUESS ALL THAT HAVE TAKEN PART IN THE LAST 3 YEARS SHOUD BE VERY FUCKING PROUD OF IT HUH, i hope it feels good…
trust, feeling entitled, feeling special, feeling deserveing FORCING POWER BY MANIPULATION AND MASCULINITY IS NOT TRUE POWER….
bdsm is simply living as we should already be living and treating others as we should already be treating others,
bdsm is about knowing YOUR SELF, ACCEPTING YOUR SELF, HOLDING YOUR SELF ACCOUNTABLE, BEING RIGHT WITHIN YOURSELF
simply put….the “kinks” in bdsm, IS A WAY TO TRAIN YOUR BRAIN…IS A WAY TO CHANGE THE WAY HORRIBLE WAYS THAT WE LIVE IN THIS WORLD….
ITS A WAY TO PUSH BEYOND WHAT YOU THINK IS YOUR LIMITS, TO PUSH FARTHERR, THAN EVER BEFORE, AND GETTING A MJOR PRIZE AT THE END….we only use less than 10% or our brains, pushing past this percentage is INCREDIBLE
THE VERY CORE OF BDSM IS RESPECT, HONESTY, COMMUNICATION, LOYALITY, UNDERSTANDING THAT HAVING THE OTHER IS “COMPLETION” OF OURSELVES, ITS WHAT MAKES US ” WHOLE” . IN ORDER TO BE ONE ROLE, YOU MUST HAVE THE OTHER ROLE,
its about knowing the value in life, that the gift is life in itself, life is delicate should be held in the palm of your hand and delicatly taking care of.
the kinks is lagniappe ….”extra” once all the training is over…ive been in this 30 years, you never stop learning and pushing your brain even farther,
while i have sat and watched you men on here, complain and whine about why providers hate men,
while i have sat here and watched you all say, “that we see you at your worse” hey…we get this ok…..but what we DONT GET…WHAT IS NOT EXCUSEABLE JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE IN BAD SPOT….
……IS TREATING ANOTHER HUMAN SO BADLY THAT IT CAUSES PERMANENT FUCKING BRAIN DAMAGE…..
ITS NOT EXCUSEABLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
when you pm me, when there’s 15 different mothefuckers pm’ing all at the same time…acting like piranana’s ….
YOUR DICKS ARE STILL CONTROLLING YOU!!! HOW CAN YOU EXPECT TO TAKE CONTROL OF ANOTHER HUMAN BEING’S LIFE
WHEN YOU STILL ARE ALLOWING YOUR DICK’S TO CONTROL YOU?????? YOU ARE NOT A Dom…MUST LESS A Master….
YOU HAVE NOT MASTERED CONTROLLING YOUR DICKS..THEREFORE YOU’RW A FUCKING FAKE, A FRAUD, AND CAN BE SPOTTED A MILE A FUCKING WAY,
BDSM IS NOT A FUCKING “HOOK UP” ….ITS TAKES A LONG PROCESS…..YOU CAN NOT DEMAND RESPECT WHEN YOU CAN NOT RESPECT YOUR OWN SELVES