The Realities and Facts of Porn

Today I have seen a lot of questions and polls surrounding porn from Facebook to Reddit. Just seems like everywhere I go to read there’s questions about starting out and getting into the porn industry from the general public. And although most of my content that I have for sale made with just people I’ve been with over the years. When Alex Anaconda had came to me almost two years ago now about working with him on making some content together over the time we found a very good friendship. and I have to say he had taken me under his wing and helped me out a lot but the information I’m being new to the side of the adult industry. Over time I have also done a lot of research and talked with others and I wanted to just go over some highlights that the general public is not aware of involving porn.

Sex is very natural. Sex is for the purpose of reproduction, is for enjoyment. sex is a release from stress, it’s a very intimate time that you share. And whether it’s a casual hookup or a relationship it’s still very intimate. This war on sex and sex workers is very something is really inconceivable for me because it’s unhealthy to suppress the sexual urges that we have. It hinders being able to have the correct knowledge and education involving sex. Kind of reminds me of when my grandmother told me that she was told as a kid that if you washed women’s panties and men’s underwear together that’s how you got pregnant. And I feel that we’re going backwards to those times. And that’s definitely not good. A person’s sexuality as well as the act of sex should be embraced. When a person embraces their sexuality, there’s a certain freedom that you find. That can only be found when fully embraced.

And whether anybody wants to admit it or not watching porn is part of our sex lives. And very honestly speaking I’ve only come across one individual that does not watch porn in my life. And it still blows my mind LOL. I’ll admit I’m a pornaddict. But when is too much too much? When does porn become dangerous or unhealthy?

First off you should realize that making porn is nothing more then any other actor or actress in any other movie. There are tricks of the trade, pun intended that the general public does not even realize that goes on behind the scenes. And I want to make sure that I bring this up because with STDs on the rise. Those that are not using protection while having sex and going by what you see in porn has been the biggest factor in the rise of STDs again. First of all performers are tested very regularly. Sex workers in general, it’s important for us to get tested more so then what the general public realizes. For anyone in this industry the recommendations for STD testing either monthly or at least every three months. And personally, I would recommend everyone whether in a marriage or not, to get tested at least twice yearly.

There was a documentary done not long ago I think last year on porn when HIV had just came out. Because of what took place back then with the spread of HIV and AIDS. As well as hepatitis C there have been more requirements and restrictions put into place for the safety of everyone involved that is professionly filming porn.

To know all the little tricks that are done while filming porn, take for example, cumshot scenes, the face wash Cetaphil looks just like cum and it’s more often than not used for these scenes. Also for the male performer a lot of them especially if they are making a lot of movies are taking anywhere between 3 to 6 different ED medications to stay hard for when its time for their scene. There’s a lot of cuts and a lot of stops and a lot of makeups and a lot of repositioning and a lot of things that are involved that you Don’t see in the film that is going on behind the scenes. that male performer may need to stop for a second to get position right or something may be needed to be fixed with the female performer or changed up or whatever. this is just like any other movie being made. You have to remember the lines that you’re supposed to say in these movies for those that has a plot to it. It’s actually acting just like a Hollywood movie you seen in the theaters.

When the general public watches porn JUST AS a stimulate to arose and to bring a little extra excitement into the bedroom so to speak is very healthy. It becomes very unhealthy and very dangerous when you try to bring the fantasy porn into reality and not realize the dangers that are involved or thoae little tricks that we do behind the scenes to film the porn that you watch. Cuckolding for example, there have been a rise of male suicides due to trying to actually live out cuckolding porn in their realities. And it hits home for alot of professional sex workers because some of us have lost friends because of the damage to self esteem and self-confidence it does to a man in these kinds of relationships. These relationships focus on belittling the male and if not careful can ultimately bring a man to feelings of inadequacy to the point of suicide. Playing these roles are healthy and fine. But to actually live this way you do not realize the dangers and the risk that are involved.

Rape and revenge porn is another one. And I’ll admit it I do like this kind of porn. The dangers involving this type of porn has seen a very high spike recently so much so that directors are now giving warnings about this. And is the reason why I started writing blogs on BDSM. Because actual BDSM and what’s portrayed in porn that the general public sees are two very different things….very different. And while it’s good to watch and it’s a turn-on to watch somebody dominating someone else or controlling someone else, the risk factors that are involved like I’ve been trying to get across in these few blocks that I’ve been writing here recently can be death. And also it tarnishes what BDSM really is about and being that this lifestyle it’s about the only thing left I have to hold onto for hope. This lifestyle is a very beautiful thing and there needs to be more education about it. Which is what im doing.

You must understand that these scenes they are rehearsed scenes, these scenes are set up at locations and very specific and are acted out. for anyone out of the general public to try and mimic and try to duplicate these scenes it’s so dangerous and it should not be done, it’s not even just not recommended it’s should NOT be done.

I’m going to give you an example here with what im trying to say. I’ve recently started putting my content out there to sell to the general public now grant it, my porn is not rehearsed it’s not acted out, it’s me it’s real. cuz I going to tell you now I’m not good at acting at nothing I can’t remember a joke much less a scene for a movie to be filmed LOL. Recently while seeing visitors I have been getting hurt. And for the past 3 or so months I could not figure out why I kept being hurt and I just didn’t say anything about it. and I wish I would have actually, but I did not realize what was actually going on until one night recently, I had a visitor that I had seen once and he had a request and that one time I had seen him, he was trying to force me into going all the way down on him and what he was doing he was actually making me hit the roof of mouth because my neck and my throat wasn’t positioned right and it hurt me. Not to mention he crowded me in because I am claustrophobic and it just was not a good visit for me at all. But he mentioned that he had seen my videos and that I give off the wrong impression. That’s when it hit me what had been going on. Because there was a person before that that came in from out of town that had actually given me a whiplash and put me out of work for a day and a half. not to mention it really hurt because of my back it went down all the way down my lower back from my neck and I’m disabled in my back which caused a lot other issues for me. To realize that because I have this reputation of being able to take a hardcore Facefucking and someone that I don’t know and meeting for the first time trying to replicate what is seen my films it really messed me up. Because you don’t realize these films that you were seeing me in are with people that I have been with before and we both know each other on these intimate terms. And to try to just walk in and try to replicate what you see and fantasize about in my films has hurt me. And very honestly speaking I was close to no longer selling my content because of this. This is just a small example of things that can go wrong when you try to take what you see and bring it into reality. And not to mention, the visits were not good visits at all for me. And for the visitors ,this caused for less than satisfactory visits. The one that caused me a whiplash I would not talk to him the rest of the week that he was here and I would not see him again before he left out of town. I’m guess he had been satisfied but oh yes I had been hurt the rest of the week and refused to even talk to him.

Now I’m going to bring up the legalities. The laws surrounding the adult industry are constantly changing, almost daily is a new law pertaining to the adult industry. And if you are not aware of these laws and stay on top of them this can cause you a lot of trouble. And a whole lot of time behind that trouble. you have to be aware of what the definition of a producer is, who is a producer what makes you a producer, you need to be aware of the copyright laws because whoever takes the pictures or the film is rightful owner of Made content. Say for example you go to any photographer and they take family pictures or even you know our pictures for portfolio they are actual owners of the copyright because they or the ones they actually created the art. So you must know the copyright laws. And you need to know the different copyright to go with the different creations in other words like for websites for digital for writing for example books or blogs. There’s different specifications to this copyright laws for each one of these kinds of creations. Which is where you need to know about the work-for-hire agreement form because you want to keep your copyrights so anytime you go to a photographer make sure that you have a work-for-hire agreement form signed by the photographer if you’re not taking your own pictures or videos.

You must know what the federal 2257 law is. And if you’re selling porn, (And here’s where I’m gonna get you lol) or if you’re uploading porn to a site you must be aware and in compliance to the Federal 2257 laws. This law pertains to underage pornography and was made law when it came to light that Tracy lords was actually 15 when she made her films. This is the reason for the model release forms that you have to have. you have to have a picture of the ID you have to have their signature the models real name, all the names used as model names, and these records have to be kept at a specified place safely and the attorney general has to know where these records are kept. there are specified years that these records have to be kept and even if you get out of porn these records have to be kept for a minimum of five years afterwards. the attorney general at any given time can come into the specified location of those records with a warrant to make sure that you’re in compliance with these underage laws if you are not…you are doing some major time for not having proof of age.

The new California AB5 law is a big one here recently. And is the reason why many the big concern for like uber and Lyft drivers for example and has become a big problem with cam models because you were considered a freelancer. because you are then considered an employee, for example for all these affaliate sites, like onlyfans…which you have to have workman’s comp and do taxes and the whole list of things that goes on with this.

and here recently California is I don’t know if it’s been passed quite yet I got to go back and look, California is trying to make it that all sex workers are now fingerprinting registered and certified and in their list of reasonings of this law being passed the major reason is for tax purposes.

There’s another thing that’s really important that I need to touch base on. There are only two states that you can legally make porn and sale it. That is California and New Hampshire. All the other states recognize making porn as selling sex, which is legally defined as an agreement 2 pay for sexual services. These services can come into any form as in dancing, porn ...anything that is considered an arousal from a stimulant which can be ANYTHING, smoking to feet fetishes, it doesnt have to actual sex or naked for example anything that can be used as a stimulant to arouse is considered porn and agreement can be made with the nod of your head or the blink of an eye or whatever that can be used to agree to pay for sexual services is considered illegal. And the laws due to FOSTA now state that anything that can be construed, let me repeat that, anything that can be CONSTRUED as make an agreement to pay for any sexual services is illegal!!!! this also includes the activities you do before the services. For example going to the bank to the ATM getting money out and that ATM that time stamps you before you do this illegal act is included in this.

The fine line between escorting being legal and what makes it and considers it illegally defining as prostitution is very very thin. And you have to be aware of these very fine lines and with the laws they are now making these lines that are been in the first place are now so very thin then I guess you can consider it to be worse than walking on eggshells. And the cost now of breaking these laws went from a misdemeanor summons slap-on-the-wrist to anywhere up to 25 years plus Federal time. The cost and the high price of these risk or now too high to make any slip-ups or to be ignorant or to play games or to not think before acting or saying because the words you use can cost you as well not only you but can cost a whole lot of others down the line.

You MUST know the termiology and the definitions of that termology by which these laws state!!!! for example, DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA OF SEX WORKER ACTUALLY MEANS AND IS???? well, let me help you out here, “Sex Worker” is an umberalla term that is used that defines ANYONE THAT HAS ANY INVOLVEMENT IN ADULT PRACTICES, THIS MEANS ANYONE AND EVERYONE FROM THE CASHIER AT THAT ADULT STORE THAT YOU BUY AN SEXY OUTFIT FROM TO CPA AND SECERATORIES AND ANYONE THAT HAS ANY HAND PERTAINING TO ANYTHING ADULT AND/OR SEXUAL…..Now wait a min, here’s where i’m gonna catch ya again. lol….

Here’s where the new laws due to this war on sex workers has mess EVERYONE up!!! ANYONE and EVERYONE that does business or has ANY connections with ANY SEX WORKER, has BEEN MADE LIABLE AND MADE ACCOUNTABLE for KNOWINGLY housing, selling, renting, and EVERY FUCKING THING ELSE, you are considered to help in sex trafficking purposes AND CAN CAUSE YOU TO GO TO JAIL….This includes EVERYTHING from being friends, to selling clothes at walmart to renting hotel rooms, you name it, THE NEW RECENT LAWS HAVE FREAKING COVERED IT. THIS ALSO INCLUDES, THE NEW TEXAS STATE LAWS THAT WERE PASSED LAST SEPT, THE TRAPMENT HOUSE LAWS, WHICH INCLUDES ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING THAT CAN BE USED FOR SHELTER, AND WENT AS FAR AS MAKING SURE TO STATE, TENTS, BOATS, CARS, HOUSES, APT AND ANY AND EVERYTHING ELSE THAT CAN BE USED TO SHELTER AND BE USED IN “HUMAN TRAFFACKING” AND EVERYTHING CAN AND WILL BE SEIZED IN THAT SHELTER/

What this means, is absolutely everyone who gives food to, helps to cloth, and shelter anyone is considered a human trafficker, and literally leaves everyone that has anything to do with sex work, HUNGRY, HOMELESS AND NAKED!!! that means if you know that nice cashier to megaplex that go to, shes a sex worker. and by law, where that cashier lives, whoever she is renting that place from, is considered to be a human trafficker and can do federal time!!! this is how far and freaking ridiculous this war on pornography and sex workers has gone!! and you must be aware of these forever changing laws….or IT CAN COST EVERYONE!!! look below….


What is Human Trafficking?

The Texas Penal Code defines “trafficking” for us.  Section 20A.01(4) of the Texas Penal Code explains that trafficking “… means to transport, entice, recruit, harbor, provide, or otherwise obtain another person by any means.”

The Office of the Texas Attorney General describes human trafficking as human trafficking “modern-day slavery,” where people are exploited in one of two ways:

1. Commercial sex (prostitution, pornography, stripping, live-sex shows, mail-order brides, military prostitution and sex tourism); or

2. Forced labor (agriculture, domestic servitude, and sweatshop).

https://www.dallasjustice.com/human-trafficking-in-texas-criminal-defense-perspective-part-1-of-2/

Texas has put the real blame where it belongs, on sex traffickers, not their victims.(hey guess what this means, you and you and you and you and hey yeaaaa…you tooo is liable!!!! )

Abbott signed into law two bills that finally increase the punishment for the purveyors in this soul-crushing criminal enterprise.

Abbott signed into law two bills that finally increase the punishment for the purveyors in this soul-crushing criminal enterprise.

These two new laws become effective on September 1, 2019.  They define state crimes involving promotion of prostitution via the web, and criminalize both (1) the online promotion of prostitution as well as (2) the “aggravated” online promotion of prostitution.

Human Trafficking: Felony Charges

Absent certain exceptions, anyone charged for violating these state human trafficking laws will be charged with an offense proscribed as a felony of the second degree.

They may face charges of a felony of the first degree if:

  1. Either the person allegedly trafficked died in the commission of the alleged offense;
  2. This person’s unborn child died as a result of the commission of the alleged offense; or
  3. The charges involve someone under the age of 18 years, i.e., the alleged trafficking of a child.

Texas Penal Code Section 20A.02(b).

What is a first degree felony in Texas?  Anyone adjudged guilty of a felony of the first degree shall be punished by a term of 5 – 99 years, or they may be sentenced to life imprisonment (along with a fine of up to $10,000).  Texas Penal Code Section 12.32

A second degree felony comes with a term between 2-20 years (and a fine of up to $10,000).  Texas Penal Code Section 12.33.

Congress has also passed the Justice for Victims of Trafficking Act (JVTA) of 2015, which makes it a crime for anyone to purchase or buy commercial sex from someone who has been trafficked.  It allows “johns” to be arrested in federal sex trafficking cases.

https://www.dallasjustice.com/human-trafficking-in-texas-criminal-defense-perspective-part-1-of-2/

Their research shows over 5147 cases of trafficking (sex and labor) during January – June 2018, with 455 cases originating in Texas. That averages to approximately 75 cases per month or 19 per week across the Lone Star State.

Most of the human trafficking is reported by NHTH as involving sex trafficking.  According to their findings, these trafficking cases involve:

  • Illicit Massage/Spa Business
  • Residence-Based Commercial Sex
  • Hotel/Motel-Based
  • Pornography
  • Online Ad, Venue Unknown.

The NHTH claims to have “one of the most extensive data sets on the issue of human trafficking in the United States,” with data coming from phone calls, emails, and online tips.

The NHTH data for Texas provides the following for 2017 (the last full reporting year):

  • 792 reported cases of human trafficking; and
  • 551 reported cases of sex trafficking.  In Texas, these sex trafficking cases involved:
  • Illicit Massage/Spa Business (100)
  • Hotel/Motel-Based (76)
  • Residence-Based Commercial Sex (54)
  • Online Ad, Venue Unknown (34)
  • Escort Services (31).

So when you’re in entering and involving yourself anyting adult industry wise or sexual wise you have to be more than educated on these laws to lessen the risk factors involved. you have to understand the dangers involved in trying to bring porn fantasy and reality into your life you have to be aware of the risk the dangers the cost and you actually have to be more responsible because of all of this than irrresponsible.

And I’m just going to mention here this is why I can tell when visitors are potential visitors try to give me these excuses have different things you said your ignorance and that’s not in a bad way I’m not trying to say that badly I’m trying to tell you you need to educate yourselves so that you can adjust your security measures and adjust your cautions that you take for yourselves in the correct manner that needs to be applied because there’s a lot of holes in your caution and security measures that you were taking and this is the reason why I put the information out there on that resources page for any and everybody to grab at your fingertips use it you need it. Everybody needs to use resources of information I feel and knowledge is power. You can arm yourself correctly with a correct information and knowledge this is important for everybody to pay attention to it really is all of it this is why I did not separate this into two separate blogs I wanted you to know and be aware of each side of this has a danger has a risk has potential death or jail time. And it goes full circle so researches you best friend knowledge is your best friend education is your best friend.

I’m going to end this with I have 30 years of knowledge and the living the life of BDSM and even though there’s always more knowledge to to learn in this lifestyle. I am a full believer in making sure that everyone gets the correct knowledge and like I said this is the reason why I am doing these blogs on this subject.

I hope I’ve enlightened some of you and brought to your attention some things that I never is not commonly known amongst the general public I hope this helps a whole lot for everybody because I don’t want to see anybody hurt and I really care a lot for people in general and I just don’t want to see anybody go down for misconceptions and misinformation much less get hurt.

Thanks

Rogue/Michelle

Resources used:

https://www.dallasjustice.com/new-texas-sex-crimes-the-online-prostitution-laws-effective-september-1-2019/

https://www.dallasjustice.com/human-trafficking-in-texas-criminal-defense-perspective-part-1-of-2/

https://www.dallasjustice.com/human-trafficking-in-texas-criminal-defense-perspective-part-2-of-2/

https://www.lifesitenews.com/mobile/blogs/porn-director-sounds-alarm-female-strangulation-choking-dominates-mainstream-porn?__twitter_impression=true

ps: for those of you that wonder why i have so many rules and i stand my ground and for those of you who act like assholes and fuck around with this, trying to tell me some fake name and shit and also for those of you who think just because it’s not “seen” as a job and you just do stupid shit just because you dont think to care….YOU BETTER START CARING!!! btw,….its your ass and everyone elses to….

This is why i state, HAVING THE CORRECT KNOWLEDGE AND KNOWING THE LAWS, YOU CAN BETTER ADJUST YOUR SAFETY AND SECURITY MEASURES TAKEN!!!

There’s a whole lot more involved every which way you can think when it comes to the adult industry….thank you

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